Just like newlywed's

OH MAN

husband and I just had the most fun all naked and all over the house. Like teenagers! jeeze. We've been married 13 years in three weeks. unreal.

1. I can't believe I'm sober
2. I can't believe I just lost 40 pounds and I'm not even done
3. I can't believe how me and M got married and made it THROUGH what all we have! most people wouldn't have and my life would be misery without him. I'm just so grateful.

I'm so obsessed with food. I am planning a lovely binge this evening on guacamole that I made from a kit from trader joes. Dood, I can't get enough trader joes lately. I got the best new favorite thing there: Tuna in thai green curry SOOOOOOO good and only $1.50 And this guac kit has 2 avocados, a tomato, a shallot, a jalapeno pepper, 2 cloves of garlic and a lime. for 3 bucks. chop it all up, juice the lime in there. done. SUPER FRIGGIN GOOD. yes, I'll puke most of it. I have to. I know I'll feel full after and I know it's weird and gross to PLAN to puke. how about just not eating it? I thought of that.... nah.

I DO have so much self control during the day with not eating. I am just repulsed by anything gross--which is GOOD, so I only eat clean and good and haven't had meat since thanksgiving. I realize that's not too long but if I was gonna puss out I would have already. So mostly all day, all I eat is trail mix and maybe oatmeal for breakfast. OH today for breakfast (at noon) I had an egg scrambled with veggies (trader joes frozen blend) and a slice of provolone on top. I made my own trail mix today: raw almonds, cashews, golden raisins, strawberry craisins, tiny bit of peanuts, chocolate chips. I got all that in the bulks and it was like $2 or $3 bux and made 5 cups! that would have been like $10 bucks. Which gave me an idea: Christmas presents. I know! sounds cheapish and lame but I'm inspired. i'm gonna put it in cute jars decorated with pretty fabric on the lids.... :-)

A friend of our interviewed us for a psych paper a few years ago. I'm not really sure what the point of the paper was, but she recorded it and somehow it was a LOT about my drinking. I was at a little kids birthday party she was at today and she was telling me about it, I was like "OH YA!".... I want to listen to the tape! she reminded me I said things like "I will get a divorce and loose my kids before I stop drinking" and he said things like "I will probably have to leave one day to protect my kids"... SO SAD--but I'm all the more joyful that things got turned around! I WAS SO HOPELESS to feel that way! I was 100% sure I wouldn't ever be free of that! and here I am. I'm ALL THE WAY on the other side of all that. wow.

Three years

I was just like a little child and I was broken and cold, but never forsaken. I reached out and took the hand that was given to me so freely and I walked into treatment and into Alcoholics Anonymous. Into the warmth and into the light, I walked with a heavy heart. I was freed from the bondage of self, relieved of the obsession to drink alcohol.


Today I live in gratitude, not fear. I feel pride and not shame. I have relief instead of guilt. I have hope in my life! I have responsibility and I live up to it. Three years?? Is this me? I am a good person.

Three years ago today, I screamed at my mom to give me alcohol and she would not. My own Mother. Oh God, she gave me the greatest gift a mother can, she took that demon into herself to save me. Seems silly to tell it now, but that is exactly what she did. For it was less than two years later that the same evil power took her life. Forever. And I know, she knew.

ooooooh the intruigue

Black Swan

Check that out~ am I the biggest dork for not knowing about this movie till just now??

Anyway, I puked my guts out ALL through the thanksgiving holiday. And I lost weight. I was stuck at 152 - 156 for like A MONTH!! And now I'm 148! WOW huh. I'm so distracted right now.

Sorry for you followers who read the ana/mia chron's cuz I have to post KIND OF the same info in both. I don't talk too much over there about AA or, really anything that isn't about puking or weight loss..

But HERE you get to read about FUN AA Parties. just kidding.

check THIS OUT! this is a picture of my ass in some goal pants one month ago (left duh) and just today (on the right.) there's room for another photo (for when they're falling off.........

alano magic

I planned to keep myself busy while we're here In Idaho for Thanksgiving. I brought 3 scarves to crochet, 30 Christmas cards to fill out and get ready to mail, and I found all the nearby AA meetings. I went to the local ALANO club and found just the greatest goup of people. I met a nice girl who's gonna pick me up for a womens meeting tomorrow. sounds cheezy, but those people are like family and they're strangers and that's magic. The subject was gratitude today and I'm so grateful for my in laws and just how they accept me. They've all told me they're so proud and to thinka few years ago, ALL I was was a dissapointment. AND I was miserable. Now I'm SO MELLOWED out! I can't believe it. and like, I just thought sobriety would mean I'd have to just live my life a nervous wreck AND be fake. But all the honesty I see in AA--it's unreal. I'll have 3 years in a few days, THAT'S unreal too eh....

AND I'm loosing weight which just makes me feel even MORE at home in my own skin. And I'm still loosing as we are on this vacation, even though I'm not going to the gym and I HAVE to eat. I AM throwing up 2 or 3 times a day. I can't help it. I started to feel pretty anxious today when we ate lunch. Like I was gonna cry..... I was pretty high from that meeting. I probably didnt' need to eat....

sleepy zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

tendons intact

I'm done with my antibiotics so I went to the gym today and RAN. Only 1.5 miles not 2 but STILL I don't think I would have been able to do it if it wasn't for THIS: OxyElite Pro. it's some pump you up thermogenic + caffeine. And I love it. It gave me the shakes BAD till after I worked out, but then I was cool. It also messed with my circulation because my hands got swollen when I ran. But then I went swimming and got evened out.... It's KIND of a little like a mix between COKE and extacy. My eyes were wide open and I was getting hot n cold flashes and my feet were tingling and I was giggling and it was kind of intense. Then when I went in the hot tub and pool, it was crazy and the only comparison I can think of is extacy.... It contains a couple different things, one is yohimbe which is an "herbal viagra"--explains the circulation thing. and an aryuvedic herb used to improve memory and concentration. So basically it makes you focused, horny, and hopped up. just kidding. I'm not horny. well, we HAVE been on hiatus since I got the bladder infection. hee hee! I'm glad it's date night.

When I was on the antibiotics I didnt' take laxatives or diuretics and I was still doing ok in the bathroom, but every day I was more and more puffed up till yesterday I was HUGE and uncomfortable no kidding. I took all that again last night I HAD TOO and I'm sure I've lost a few just in this one day. We'll see, I'll weigh in tomorrow morning. I got down to 152 for one second last week. and last night I was fucking 158!!! that's honk.

I'm still juicing every day and haven't had meat. But I DO have a ton of lean cuisines in the freezer I can't toss out, I'll still eat..... later.... and tonight we're having fish tacos. I'm pretty sure this is gonna have to be a step by step thing. where I'll still eat fish and dairy and eggs. lacto-ovo pescatarian?? whatever, I feel bad, I HATE it when people say they're gonna do something and then pretty much retract by only doing SOME of what they said. But then that hatred just makes me never say I'm gonna do anything because I dont' want to be a wishy washy flake. but never making goals or standards for myself from fear of being a flake, that's not good either....

anyway, jeeze ya, I guess oxyelite gives me a nice little bit of focus.
haha

on the warpath

or: I'm on a rampage? A mellow rampage. I watched a documentary last night called the beautiful thing I think. It's about this Dr who cured cancer in the 40's named Dr Gerson. I mean, that's the basic subject of the documentary. and it goes on about how curing cancer is a business and everyone would be out of a job if they actually DID cure cancer. SO it's this big conspiracy theory. But I totally believe it. And then I was reminded of all these other food related conspiracies I get all excited about but never follow through with. The "juiceman" was on this movie. Its all about curing cancer with juicing, and coffee enemas, and getting cancer causing stuff out of our food and bodies. So today, I busted out the juicer and got "Skinny Bitch" from the library. It's a GREAT book. More conspiracy stuff and it's all true and I want to go vegetarian this time for real. I want to be healthy most of all and i know that WITH that, will come super-skinny. I know it.

I haven't taken laxatives since Thursday. Diuretics either. and I'm super successful in the bathroom anyway! yaaaaaaaaaaaay. I'm eating tons of GOOD poop making foods: apples, flax seeds, beets, probiotics... I made spicy butternut soup this weekend and ate that a few times. that had chicken broth in it...

UGH! this book IS SUPER good.

Freaking out

Ok, I'm freaking out right now because I got a BAD (hit me hard, bleeding) bladder infection this morning. I went to the doctor and he gave me Cipro. When I filled it, the pharmacist told me "no exercise" while I take it!!?? I said "running's ok though right" haha, he said NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I guess theres a super rare chance of tendon rupture. I ran 2 miles yesterday!! And I know I have to run every day, or it will be so sickening HARD to get back to it after a break! I don't want a break!! I called the doc to ask for something else. Fuck that.